Munthu aliyense wa Chidatchi yemwe angathe kukhala 'wosokonezeka' ndi wodutsa

Inde, mwadzidzidzi pakati pa mphuno ndi milomo ndi lipoti lomwe lero lino maganizo kuyenda kuzungulira Netherlands. Kuchokera panja amawoneka ngati ambulansi, koma mkati mwa munthuyo amatha kumangirira bwino ndipo palibe zipangizo zomwe zingathe kugwa. Mankhwalawa ndi obisika. Pogwiritsa ntchito mawu oti 'munthu wosokonezeka', ambiri a anthu a Chidatchi amaganiza kuti sangakwanitse kutero, koma ndikumvetsa kwakukulu kwakukulu. Tawonani tanthawuzo la 'munthu wosokonezeka' ngati dzulo Leeuwarder Courant anati: "Ngati chisokonezo chikhoza kukhala ndi matenda aumphawi, komanso kuledzeretsa, kulema mtima, kulemala kwaumunthu komanso mavuto osiyanasiyana a moyo kapena kuphatikiza zonsezi."Makamaka mawu oti 'mavuto osiyanasiyana a moyo' ndiwongopeka kwambiri.

Kodi angakhale chiyani kuti ndi "mavuto osiyanasiyana"? Zitsanzo zakhala zikufotokozedwa kale, koma malinga ngati anthu amaganiza kuti sakuzigwira okha, samasuntha. Ndikuziwona izi kudzera mu mapulogalamu omwe ndimalandira kudzera mwa imelo kuti ndiwathandizidwe ndi nkhanza, zomwe ine movomereza ndimakana chifukwa sindikusamalira milandu yeniyeni ya anthu. Posachedwapa ndalandira ngakhale chipinda cha 3 chipinda cha The Hague kuchokera kwa mayi yemwe adachiritsidwa ndi chipatala ndikumuuza kuti akuyesera kumusamalira chifukwa amatsutsa za kutetezedwa kwa mpweya wa dialysis. Anthu amayamba kugwira ntchito pamene akuwakhudza okha ndikudzidzimutsa kuti ndikupereka zopereka zambiri ngati ndikufuna kulemba za vuto lawo, koma sikuti timakwatirana. Ndakhala ndikuchenjeza kwa zaka zambiri za boma lomwe limagwira nzika zawo ngati ng'ombe m'khola ndipo likugwiritsa ntchito njira zowonjezera kuti zithetsere banns. Pakalipano, anthu amangoganiza kuti zinthu siziri zoipa. Pali ena akudandaula omwe akutsalira komanso molondola malamulo ndi zowonjezereka, koma o bwino, Gordon ali nawo adalemba biography (werengani: zinalembedwera kuti apindule ndalama za mthumba) ndipo Island Yana (yemwe sakumudziwa) amayesa pafupifupi mtsikana wina adamira. Mwachidule: Pali zinthu zofunika kwambiri kuzidandaula nazo. "Zonsezi zidzakhala bwinoko, ngati mutangomvera malamulowo."

Wanga nkhani kuyambira dzulo Ndinafotokozera momwe lipoti lonena za kuwonjezeka kwa chiwerengero cha anthu osokonezeka makamaka cholinga chokankhira mwalamulo anthu osokonezeka a Edith Schippers mu nthawiyi Vuto, Kusintha, Kuthetsa. Schippers poyamba anakonza msonkhano ndi mabungwe osowa pokonzetsa chiwerengero cha mabedi kwa anthu osokonezeka ndipo chotero kuwonjezeka kwa chiwerengero kunakhala vuto lenileni. Pambuyo pake, ngati mutsimikiza kuti anthu omwe ali ndi matenda a m'maganizo amathera pamsewu, mumakhala ndi mavuto ambiri, choncho malipoti ambiri. Kotero mumalenga vuto gawo. The anachita Inu mukuzindikira kupyolera mu mauthenga kuti zowonongeka zimakulira ndikukweza ndipo kenako popanda kutsutsa Anakonza kupereka. "Chabwino, ifenso tikufuna yankho?", Inu mukhoza kunena. Inde, mukufuna njira yothetsera odwala matenda opatsirana pogonana omwe, mwachitsanzo, ali ndi maganizo komanso amachititsa kuti asokonezeke, koma anali atachoka kale. Komabe, yankho monga momwe lidzakhazikitsire mulamulo lidzatsimikiziranso kuti aliyense popanda kuyesedwa (popanda kuweruzidwa kwa woweruza kapena wodwala maganizo) kuchokera mumsewu. "O bwino, izo zidzakhala zabwinoko pang'ono, mwinamwake ndizopanganso zina zowonetsera maganizo". Ine ndikukumva iwe ukuzinena izo.

Kodi ndingolongosola mavuto osiyanasiyana 'omwe angakhale chifukwa chokutengerani ku psychotherapy pamene lamulo latsopano likubwera?

• Akukana kuphunzitsa ana ake kuti kugonana ndiko kusankha;
• Kodi ana safuna kusiya ntchito za kusamalira achinyamata ngati ali ndi mavuto azachuma;
• Amakhulupirira kuti atolankhani ndi ndale nthawi zina amanama;
• Amatsata mawebusaiti omwe sakuvomerezedwa ndi boma;
• Pamsonkhano wolimbana ndi boma, adawonetsa kuti amadwala nkhawa chifukwa cha ngongole;
• Amakhulupirira ziwembu ngati 911 inali ntchito ya mkati ndipo imakhudza ana ndi lingaliro loipa;
• Etcetera

Pa ulendo wa kunyumba kwa akuluakulu awiri omwe anabwera kwa ine kuti aone ngati ndiyenera kulandira chithandizo chaumphawi, ndinafunsidwa funso la momwe angasiye kuyang'ana mwana wanu. Ndinayankha kuti izi, nthawi zina, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri. Akuluakulu awiriwa adachita ngati sakudziwa kuti angapeze bwanji bonasi yawo chaka chino powauza kuti mungapezenso thandizo la maganizo. Ndinawonetsa kuti izi sizinali zofunikira, chifukwa sindinkaona kuti ndikusowa kapena ndinali ndi nkhawa. Koma sindinawachotse mosavuta. Anatha kundiuza kuti nditangopindula nawo, angandithandize. Inde, sindinapezepo phindu, koma ndikusangalala kuuza ena zomwe ndaphunzira pa ulendo wolakwira kunyumbawu.

Pali magulu ambiri a anthu omwe amapeza zofunika pamoyo wawo omwe sazengereza kukuika pambuyo pakhomo kapena kutenga maganizo. Sakukudziwani ndipo samagaya nkhani yanu. Ayenera kulipira ngongole kapena kubwereka kwawo ndipo amafunanso osachepera 1x pachaka pa holide. Nthawi yoti muyambe kuchitapo kanthu nthawi ndi nthawi pamene tsiku lina mumadziwona nokha kuti ndiwe wogwidwa ndi dongosolo lomwe limatenga khalidwe lililonse lopanda pake kapena zomveka kuchokera kwa anthu. N'zoona kuti mungakhalenso wogwira ntchito zaumoyo nokha, ndiye kuti muli m'dera lotetezeka ndipo ali Akuyang'anabe anthu.

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